Mom Learns A New Lesson!

Well the days of summer are winding down, and boy am I thankful school is starting soon. The other day I learned a new lesson from my son, Cedric. We have been spending a lot more time outside with all this beautiful weather, kids playing in the water while I tackle yard work. We had blackberry vines taking over the fig trees, so I was cleaning them out. Of course fresh sweet blackberries are a yummy treat for kiddos who play hard. Cedric and Alyssa both also liked eating the figs.

Well this last Monday my learning curve was increased. I was weeding one of the raised garden beds, Alyssa was playing in the kiddy pool and Cedric was watering Papa's (their great-grandfather) iris and calla lily barrels. All of a sudden Cedric starts sputtering, gagging and coughing. I get up to go to him as he was coming over to me. His eyes are red, he was rubbing his tummy and stomping his feet. I get him to sit down, just as this is going on my girlfriend arrives from out of town and she goes and gets Fred (my hubby) for me. I try to give him water after looking in his mouth to make sure something isn't caught in his throat. All looks clear but Cedric is definitely in some kind of pain. Fred gets out to the backyard, sits with Cedric and I go over to the barrels. My worst fears were answered, Cedric had been eating either an iris root or a calla lily root. I go get the phone to call our doctor, thankfully my girlfriend gets on the computer to look up info on the plants. How I wish it had been the iris root that would have been fine but after talking to the nurse describing his behavior and talking to Poison Control we figure out it was the calla lily root. Sadly they are poisonous, well Cedric was in for a night of severe tummy and throat pain. Poor little guy vomited so many times that night. Ever try to keep an Angel calm while they are in severe distress and you of course can't calm him with any meds?

Looking back I realise it was probably a bad idea to feed the kiddos blackberries and figs right from the vine and tree. Cedric was thinking "hey there is stuff to eat out here maybe I can have this too." I never stopped and thought. Another thing I never thought about was if any of the plants in our backyard were poisonous to kiddos. Come to find out a plant I thought I was just really sensitive to is also extremely poisonous to kids, the naked lady flower. Needless to say I have a bit of cleaning up to do in the backyard! Cedric is doing great after his night of yucko.

Days of Summer

Wow summer is moving fast! The weather has been lovely here and my family is loving every minute! We have been spending A LOT of time out in the sunshine, water fights are a great way to cool off. Cedric's aim with the water hose is becoming very accurate! I also get to enjoy doing yard work while the kiddos play. However there has been much complaint since I cleared the blackberry vines from the fig trees! It was great seeing such purple stained mouths and hands! An update on the Baclofen: all is going pretty well except for a spike in insomnia. I find it interesting we went almost 5 yrs with his sleep problems before we started meds. Now 2 weeks with this insomnia and I feel beaten up, yet I lasted years before...lol I guess I am getting old. So we are going to tweak his night meds and see what happens. There is another med we could try in place of the Baclofen but the results (minus sleep problems) have been to awesome to risk a change. The other day at the park Cedric, without his braces, walked up 3 stairs ALL by himself, not even a railing to hold onto!!! That was the coolest. We have also noticed some loosening in his mouth, he is playing with his tongue more, running it over his lips and making clearer sounds. Just last night he pointed to the ceiling fan and made the clearest "fffff" noise ever! We finally got the recommendations from the neuropsychologist we took him to see, I am glad I did NOT sign his IEP, the start of school this year will be very very interesting. The school district will probably not like us, but oh well...this little man of mine deserves every chance possible! And shunting him off to no man's land is not an option. I am sure I will have more on this later!